I love that old James Taylor song “You’ve Got A Friend”. In
its truest form, it’s a demonstration of true friendship. Who wouldn’t want
someone to tell you all those nice things? I’ll be there whenever you call or
when the sky falls. It’s such a sweet reminder of how precious our friendships
are. During my freshman year of college I entered some of the sweetest
friendships I’ve ever had. Picking and choosing friends can be tough for some
people and having moved so many times as a child I suppose I’m better at it
than most. However, I am by no means a professional at “friend-making”. As it
would happen, I became closest with the girls who lived on my hall and we did
any and everything together. From having photo-shoots with Christmas props in
Target, cramming into one of our rooms to watch a movie together, playing our
hearts out on the flag football field, dressing up as every holiday we could
think of for Halloween, hiding a pet gecko, camping in the freezing cold and
having your tent collapse in the middle of the night, climbing on the roof of
our dorm building, getting milkshakes from the sassiest of waiters at 3AM,
hammocking on our “front lawn” at 1AM, dancing in the basement laundry room
during finals week, to borrowing grandma’s cookies from the vending machine. We
shared more laughs than I ever knew I had in me. You know you have true friends
when they would do anything for you and would go out of their way just to see
you smile. These same friends are there for you when you go through your first
heartbreak and they sit on the floor and cry with you and drag a mattress into
your room to make sure you don’t feel alone. They will watch cheesy movies with
you and eat cookie dough with you when you don’t feel so good. They will listen
to you share your heart and all the dreams you wish would someday become a
reality. They give you fashion advice and let you raid their closet as long as
you let them raid yours. They make faces at you when you pass them on campus
and sing crazy made-up songs to you as loud as they can just to show how much
they love you. Even if you haven’t seen each other in 30 minutes they’ll hug
you like they haven’t seen you in a year. They’ll break out into random dancing
whenever a good song comes on and you don’t care who is watching because
everyone wishes they could have friends as cool as us. These friends are
treasures that God specifically planted in our lives to show how much He loves
and cares for us. I’m so thankful for every friend I made this year and I can’t
wait for this next year and more crazy adventures with those I love most!
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